The Man Who Changed My Life – My Stepfather #oralbsweeps

 

 

My parents got divorced when I was 10 years old and both remarried shortly thereafter. My father remarried  a woman who gave him an ultimatum to pick either his future (which was is her) or his past (which was me). He made the decision to choose his future. For almost 31 years he has not been part of my life.  I could never understand how someone could just walk out of their child’s life.  Thankfully my mom remarried to a man that raised me and has loved me as father would and should. He always met my needs as a child and has always been there for me even till this day. 

Lionel and Joy

He has loved me as if I were his birth child, a love that my birth father till this day has never given me.   My stepfather has been the only grandfather my children have ever known. He has been there when all 5 of them were born and one of the 1st to get to hold our blessings. I am so thankful and so blessed to call him my dad. He will never know how much I appreciate him and how instrumental he has been in my life. 

Lionel and the girls

So Father’s Day is not just a special day for me because my husband is the father to our 5 kids but it’s a day that I celebrate my stepfather for being such an amazing dad to me and grandfather to my kids.  

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One of the ways to celebrate these special men in our lives and our children’s lives is to enter the Dad’s Smile with a contest! Oral-B and Target is hosting the & Power Dad’s Smile Everyday Sweepstakes with over $1,000 in prizes starting June 2! You can enter, just share a photo of you and your Dad  on Twitter or Instagram using #oralbsweeps between June 2 and June 15. You could win the Father’s Day Power Bundle which includes the Oral-B Black ProfessionalCare 1000 Rechargeable Toothbrush, the Braun Series 7 760 shaver and a $250 Target Gift Card!

 

Need an amazing and practical gift for your Father this Father’s Day?

 

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Be sure to enter your father/husband in this wonderful contest at #oralbsweeps contest! 

 

I was selected for this opportunity as a member of Clever Girls Collective and the content and opinions expressed here are all my own.

 

This is a sponsored post on behalf of Global Influence and Dove. All views and opinions are our own.  Mama to 5 Blessings is disclosing this in accordance with the Federal Trade Commissions 16 CFR, Part 255 Guides Concerning the Use of Endorsements and Testimonials in Advertising.   

Comments

  1. That is terribly sad about your father, but how wonderful that your step dad stepped up into the role of father for you.

  2. Adorable family! I’m looking to buy a new Braun for my husband this weekend.

  3. Like you I have a stepdad who I consider to be completely awesome and has been there for me since I was itty bitty. Some people cannot understand that family is often more than blood, but people who are not related to us can be better than people whose blood we share. These are great Father’s Day present ideas. Thank you for sharing!

  4. Bless your stepdad’s heart for his kindness.
    Re the product, I would give something like that for a present not just to my dad, but could be to male friends too.

  5. Don Purdum says:

    I’m so happy that things worked out for you!!! It doesn’t always and for me… well it’s a sad story in the past but bright in the present and future!

  6. You got some cool family pics here. How wonderful that your stepfather is such a great dad and grandpa. 🙂

  7. What beautiful photos. They will be wonderful memories for your children.

  8. That’s sad about your biological father. What a blessing though that such a wonderful man stepped in and was such a great dad to you!

  9. wonderful product and awesome photos of the family.

  10. Thanks for sharing your story. Your step dad sounds like an amazing guy.

  11. Growing up without my own biological father was tough for me too. but with having a mother that basically performed both roles, I feel somewhat the same way you do about your bio dad not giving you the love and support you needed growing up.
    Glad there are men that are selfless like your stepdad that fill the void when it’s so needed in the world today.

    Have a great Father”s Day!!

  12. It’s caring for someone and nurturing their needs that makes someone a true parent….not biology. You are lucky you have a step dad who stepped up and I can tell from this that he loves you as much as you love him!

  13. Some stepdad’s do great jobs and become proper dads, exactly like yours has. nice to hear it turned out well for you.

  14. What a great post! My husband is a step dad to my oldest daughter and he treats her as if she were his own child. I love to hear stories like yours!

  15. I don’t understand how dads just throw their kids away (my first husband did that, too. But I thank God for stepdads that step up to the plate and fill in the gaps. So happy you have that love!

  16. This is a beautiful post and makes me cry but in a good way 🙂 I am glad that your step-father become your real Dad. It takes a kind-hearted person to love a person despite they are not blood related. I wish you Dad the best Father’s Day 🙂 You have beautiful kids as well 🙂

  17. How wonderful you had this amazing man in your life! What a blessing!!

  18. It’s wonderful that your stepdad stepped up to the plate like that for you. It’s great to read stories about selfless men like him.

  19. It’s always great to hear of stories where men take on the challenge and responsibility of raising children that aren’t biologically theirs and just shine!

  20. Awe, it sounds like you lucked out with a great Hubby and Step-Father. My Daddy was an amazing man and I miss him so very much. Thankfully I was blessed with an amazing man who is a great Hubby and perfect Father to our kids. Thanks for letting me know about the sweeps, too!

  21. Chasity Boatman says:

    What a sad story. It’s wonderful your stepdad filled that void for you.

  22. Your stepdad sounds like such a wonderful man.

  23. What an amazing man your stepdad is!! Thank you for sharing your story. I too never could understand how someone could walk away like that

  24. Your stepfather sounds like a wonderful man. I know that I hope that I am as fortunate to meet someone that will love my son as his own.

  25. Rebecca Swenor says:

    Your story is beautiful and so happy you consider the right man to be your father. You should be so proud of him. Thanks for sharing and the tips.

  26. You have a wonderful stepfather and a awesome grandfather, awesome photos of your family. Thanks for Sharing

  27. I think you are really lucky to have him in your life, to have a chance to a father. Sadly I will never experience how is a nice father.

  28. This was a sad and touching story, glad that your step-father stepped up to the home plate and took care of you.

  29. It’s nice that you have a stepfather who gave the love and the blessing of a birth father. You’re lucky to have him.

  30. great story, loving this contest.. that’s some amazing prizes

  31. Such a cute family. You are so lucky to have a step dad that took up the role of your birth father.

  32. lisa jones says:

    Sounds Like A Amazing Man Your step Dad You Have A Beautiful Family, Thanks For The Gift Ideas!!

  33. Maria Oller says:

    Blood or in this case sperm doesn’t make a men a father, but love and patience really does it, I have a wonderful dad but I know stepfathers who are better than any biological father

  34. My father was also in and out of my life. My parents finally divorced 20 years later in 2004. Even now, Willie is still a constant thorn but if it wasn’t for him, I would not be born.

  35. wow what a great man! You are lucky to have him in your life. 🙂

  36. Beautiful post. My husband has been raising my daughters since they were babies and to him they are his kids no matter what. It is a great thing Step fathers do. I too never understood how a parent could chose another life than one with their child. My mother did that to me so I know how it feels.

  37. How wonderful that your stepfather is such a great dad and grandfather! Loved your pictures!

  38. What a great person your stepfather is. Happy Father’s day to him.

  39. michelle crooks rattan says:

    Thank you for sharing your story with us. I feel the same way they don’t have to be blood.

  40. Happy Father’s day! Even if that happened in your life, there’s another father figure that will show his care and love for you.

  41. I’m sorry your Father did that to you. Some hurts never heal but totally his loss. I’m thankful you had a stepfather who stepped up and became a huge part of your life. You are blessed. 🙂

  42. I almost cry at your wonderful story. Thank you for sharing. My husband is a step-dad to my oldest son too. He has love him like his own. We are so blessed with the men in our lives. I also entered the oralbsweeps contest.

  43. Dads deserve so much recognition. Moms usually get all the cred but dads play a vital role in the way we grow and develop.

  44. Your stepfather sounds like an amazing man and father. Sometimes people don’t apreciate the treasures they have in their lives. It’s good that you had another person in your life who could really apreciate you!

  45. smantha says:

    very adorable family and is great to see what love is in others lives. great gift tips for fathers day

  46. What a great story. Always good to see great father figures.

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