Gadgets on the go are they good or bad?
I admit it I like my smart phone and my tablet. Lately I find them to be a distraction though.
Cell phones are convenient yes but have we spiraled out of control? Until a few months ago I had a smart phone without the bells and whistles but after my phone gave me constant problems I upgraded to an more up to date phone. I find it a distraction though. I find myself on the Internet when I am not home. Do we really need to be on our cell phones when we are the park watching our kids or on it every free second we have? I think cell phones are great for emergencies or looking up directions when out or even taking pictures of my kids when I do not have my camera with me.
Then there is the issue of kids and cell phones. Just the other day our family was at the zoo and a child was climbing in a play area while playing on the phone! What happened to kids being kids? When I was a kid on long drives I either read a book or colored but now kids have phones in their hands – young kids too! Now I am not saying I do not let my kids play apps in my opinion it’s all about moderation.
Then there is the issue of kids and cell phones. Just the other day our family was at the zoo and a child was climbing in a play area while playing on the phone! What happened to kids being kids? When I was a kid on long drives I either read a book or colored but now kids have phones in their hands – young kids too! Now I am not saying I do not let my kids play apps in my opinion it’s all about moderation.
Now there is another issue, cell phone etiquette.
Have you been out to eat before and the person you where with was continually on their phone? I find this not very polite. In my opinion I am there with you and I want to share dialog with you. Now there are times when you will need to be on the cell such as an emergency, etc. My mother in law (who lives out of state) will not speak with my husband on his cell phone when he is shopping because she does not want other people to hear their conversation. I never thought of that. I admit it I am a culprit of having phone conversations on my phone while shopping. I never thought I could be possibly bothering others around me. Maybe I am maybe I am not. Plus do we really want others listening not our conversations? I have thought many of times people where speaking to me but they have been on their phones and I did not realize it.
I have come to the conclusion that I need to be more respectful. Cell phones offer great benefits. You can check the Internet, make phone calls, play on apps. Or even keep my kids busy when needed but I need to evaluate if I am being considerate to those around me. Do I need to be on the phone when I am with friends or family? There is nothing wrong with telling the caller that you are with company and you will call them back. Of coarse there are circumstances where you will need to take the phone call.
I am writing this because I am noticing how distracting cell phones are.
Here are cell pone tips that I find helpful
Can my phone conversation wait?
Do not text while driving
When in public and you on the phone use a respectful voice
When in public and you on the phone use a respectful voice
Turn the cell phone off when at places like church, school, movies, etc.
When with company give them your attention not your phone.
Minimize your time on your phone and enjoy your time with your kids! A good friend said something to me recently, cherish my kids because as they grow you cannot get those past years back. So instead of e-mailing, instant chatting or texting when you are out with your kids cherish those moments and put the phone down.
Minimize your time on your phone and enjoy your time with your kids! A good friend said something to me recently, cherish my kids because as they grow you cannot get those past years back. So instead of e-mailing, instant chatting or texting when you are out with your kids cherish those moments and put the phone down.
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